Survival of not the fittest
It was a pleasant evening in Pune, and I was heading to a friend’s place on my bike. Just a few meters from my home, someone asked me to stop. He was an elderly man, probably in his early seventies, with a calm, innocent face and a warm smile. He was holding a small packet in his hand.
I stopped and asked him what he needed. He politely asked if
I could give him a lift to the nearest ATM, which was about 500 meters away. I
agreed instantly, not knowing that this short ride would leave a lifelong
impact on me.
As we started riding, I noticed he was wearing a security
agency uniform. Curious, I asked him about it. He told me he worked as a
security guard at the ATM. I was surprised—he didn’t really fit the picture of
a typical security guard. He looked frail and old, and it seemed difficult for
him to even walk a few hundred meters.
We reached the ATM quickly, but our conversation continued
for a while. Just to be sure, I gently asked him again if he really worked
there, and he confidently confirmed it. What amazed me even more was that it
was nearly 7 PM, which meant he was on the night shift.
I couldn’t help but ask him why he was doing such a job at
this age. He smiled and shared his story. He had worked for many years in a
company and had retired. He and his wife didn’t have children to support them,
so he needed to earn enough to live a decent, independent life. He told me he
earned around ₹12,000 per month from this job, which was sufficient to manage
their household and live with dignity.
In a time where we often give excuses to avoid going the
extra mile, this man was pushing his limits just to survive respectfully. I
didn’t ask whether he never had children, or if life had taken some other
turn—I didn’t feel the need to. He spoke with a constant smile, and that made
me admire him even more.
Out of curiosity, I asked him if he really thought he could
protect the ATM if a robbery happened. Without hesitation, he replied, “No, not
at all. I probably wouldn’t be able to stop it and might even get injured or
lose my life. But until then, I can feed myself and my wife, afford our
medicines, and avoid borrowing money or begging.”
Those words hit me hard. I saw a true fighter in him—someone
who refused to say “I quit” and was determined to keep going no matter what.
I also asked him about the packet he was carrying. He told
me it was his dinner, packed by his wife every day. He smiled as he said that
she never forgets to pack his tiffin, even though she knows she’ll be eating
alone at home. He said he felt grateful to still be earning at this age and
thankful to the company that gave him this opportunity.
He kept smiling and asked me a few questions about
myself—where I was from, what I did for a living, and whether I visited that
ATM often. Soon, it was time for him to start his night shift. We said goodbye,
and I continued my way.
As I rode on, I realized that while he might not be the
strongest or fittest, he was doing everything he could to make ends meet. He
inspired me deeply. It made me realize that survival isn’t always about being
the fittest—it’s about courage, resilience, and the willingness to keep going.
Many people want to live with dignity and self-respect, even
if it means a simple, minimalist life. This couple, in their quiet way, also
taught me the true meaning of togetherness and what it really means to support
each other through tough times.
Inspired by true events.
Regards
Live For The Nation
Awesome and yes at times, life teaches us the things other way and our perspective about things change with experience
ReplyDeleteThanks for your valuable time to read.
DeleteTruly Inspiring. Particularly in today's world when people are frustrated of their jobs and cribbing to find something better. These true stories definitely motivate.
ReplyDeleteThanks Bhavna. Glad that it inspired you. World is a happier place than we think.
DeleteAvi, that’s a deeply moving piece—you’ve captured something very real and often overlooked. The simplicity of the encounter and the honesty in the old man’s words make it incredibly powerful. What stayed with me most was his quiet determination to live with dignity, no matter the circumstances. It’s a strong reminder that resilience isn’t always loud or dramatic—it often shows up in small, everyday acts of courage. Thank you for sharing this story; it truly makes one pause and reflect.
ReplyDeleteThanks for great words and feedback. Yes a reminder that sometimes courage is all you need to fight the hostility.
DeleteI am glad you stopped and talked to him. They really work hard for their families and we all do. A little expression of appreciation on your face when he gave you wisdom will mean a lot to him.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing with us... Cheers
Thanks Reicha for sparing valuable time to read. He wanted to talk more but his duty was calling him so we have to say good bye.
Deleteबहुत बढ़िया सर आप जैसे लोगों की सख्त जरूरत है इस देश को भगवान आपको अपना आशीर्वाद बनाए रखें और आप ऐसे ही गरीब के लिए हमेशा साथ देते रहें
ReplyDeleteधन्यवाद आपको, समय निकालकर पढ़ने के लिए। हम सब मिलकर ही दुनिया में सकारात्मकता फैला सकते हैं
DeleteAvi sir khud hi God hai ji.
DeleteWhat touched me most is that he wasn’t trying to be heroic—he was just choosing dignity, every single day. He quietly chose responsibility. That honesty in accepting his limits yet continuing anyway is rare and deeply powerful.
ReplyDeleteIt’s a reminder that strength doesn’t always look strong from outside— it looks like showing up, doing your duty, and keeping your self-respect intact. This story really makes you pause and rethink what “enough” truly means and what is inner strength and the shift of mindset. Very well observed and penned down Avi.
Thanks a lot mam/sir for great words. You said it right, sometimes it is only about turning up every day to fulfil your responsibilities.
DeleteWell written sir. I guess fittest was misunderstood. I think in Darwin's terms the fittest is the most adaptable and here he and his wife are doing that. Adapting to their realities and working around it. I think that adaptation and resilience is itself what brings the strength. So much to learn. :)
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